My Early Money Lessons with Life-Long Impact
When I was a kid, I would ask my dad for "stuff"—things like a Cabbage Patch doll, a new bike, or designer jeans. When I was about 10 years old, he explained to me, "We need to cover the necessities first, and then we can see what's left over." From then on, any Saturday morning we weren't fishing, I would sit at the kitchen table with him and help him pay the bills.
I learned that you go to work, earn a paycheck, and then you take care of your financial obligations right away. I saw first-hand that you had to pay the mortgage, pay the utility bills, put some away for the future, and then we could figure out what was left over to spend on extras.
This Saturday morning routine at my kitchen table was the genesis of my financial education and helped me to distinguish between "needs" and "wants." My dad taught me how important it was to pay bills on time, how to write a check, and how to balance a checkbook.
I am so thankful for my dad and these early financial lessons he taught me. Never in my adult life did I have to reach back to my parents and ask for money. Never. I've experienced financial stability as an adult because I learned the importance of spending within your means, budgeting, saving, and planning when I was young.
The cost of financial illiteracy is high
While I was fortunate to learn about money early, many Americans suffer because of financial illiteracy that spans across income levels and age.
The lack of money knowledge can open the door to costly financial mistakes like credit card interest, late fees or overdraft fees, or worse.
- 65% of Americans live paycheck to paycheck.1
- 43% of Americans don't have enough savings to cover a $1,000 emergency expense.2
- About one in four Americans has at least one account in debt collections.3
In 2025, a lack of money knowledge cost Americans an average $948, according to the National Financial Educators Council.
Financial education in schools is expanding, but…
While progress has been made with financial education in the schools, there's more work to be done. Today, 30 states require students to take a standalone personal finance course to graduate from high school, according to Next Gen Personal Finance.
I was fortunate to have an elementary school teacher who was a trailblazer in her day.
My sixth-grade teacher created a banking game that helped teach delayed gratification
Decades ago, Mrs. Scroggins at Meadow Park Elementary School in North Little Rock, Arkansas, created a game where each week, we'd get an allowance of fake money. You could use your "allowance" to pay for things like a hall pass outside of scheduled break times, extra time at the gaming station, or spending money at a weekly auction we had on Fridays.
Some kids would spend their entire allowance on extra gaming time. But that wasn't my priority. I planned ahead for the weekly auction. On Friday, all the kids would bring in snacks that I loved like potato chips, sodas, and other treats, and we bid on them. I saved my money because I knew there was a big reward at the end of the week. I always came home loaded with items I bought at auction because I prioritized and planned, and I didn't spend on my lower priority items throughout the week. It was a special treat for my siblings, my cousins, and even friends from the neighborhood who would visit over the weekend.
A stock market game in college helped teach me about wealth building
Fast forward to college. We played a stock market game in one of my business classes. Each student received a fictitious $10,000 that we could invest. We picked stocks and tracked their progress. At the end of the semester, some people lost money, some people made money.
Through that game, I learned that owning stocks is a way to build wealth and gain financial independence. It was also my first introduction to diversification because I saw that the people who did better picked a variety of stocks, versus those who picked just one or two stocks.
This is also when I discovered that I wanted to be a financial advisor and help other people with their finances. In my life, I knew people who were doing well financially and others who were struggling. I wanted to be in a position to help others succeed financially.
How my early financial education changed my life
These early money lessons saved me from unnecessary debt and financial struggle, and they gave me a sense of confidence that I could stand on my own two feet and be independent as I became an adult. I am so thankful for my dad and these classes. I credit them for my financial stability today. Not only did I learn core money lessons like budgeting and how the stock market can help build wealth, I saw a path to experience financial success as an adult.
Gather your kids around the kitchen table and start talking about money
One of the greatest gifts a parent can give their children is a foundation of financial wellness. When I was a kid asking for this and that, my dad didn't say no. He said, "Let's sit down, and I'll show you how money works." Kids need that.
I am doing this with my nieces and nephews now. I opened a custodial account for each of them and let them choose fractional shares. They chose stocks like Nike, Microsoft, and Netflix, companies with products they know. It shows them in a tangible way how they can begin to build wealth by investing in companies and gaining a small piece of ownership.
There are many ways for kids to experience investing, from apps with simulated investing accounts to actual teen accounts to traditional custodial accounts.
A teen account can help take investing from a concept to an account balance that your teen can see go up and down. Your teen can learn about different asset classes, watch their investments go up and down, and learn about compounding and risk management with real numbers.
Last but not least, it's never too late to build or refresh your own money skills. Add at least one good book on personal finance or investing to your reading list, and explore the free financial education resources available at Schwab Moneywise®.
We can all work together to help improve financial literacy for the young people in our lives.
Start the money conversation:
- Teaching kids
- Starting the saving habit
- Introducing kids to investing
- Share Schwab Moneywise Teens with the teens in your life
Here's how Charles Schwab Foundation is helping
We don't just fund programs—we build partnerships that create impact and opportunity. Charles Schwab Foundation's national collaborations with trusted youth-serving organizations reach more than 17 million young people each year.
- With Boys & Girls Clubs of America, we co-developed Money Matters, BGCA's flagship financial education program, giving teens—and now younger preteens—practical experience with budgeting, saving, and investing.
- Through DonorsChoose, we match donations to financial literacy classroom projects, helping bring financial education into more than 5,000 schools across all 50 states and equipping teachers with classroom-ready tools.
- In partnership with Girl Scouts of the USA, we reimagined the organization's financial literacy badges, introducing millions of girls to saving, entrepreneurship, and financial independence, supported by Schwab employee-led badge workshops nationwide.
- Alongside Junior Achievement, we support immersive, hands-on learning through experiential programs like Finance Park, where students explore real-world financial decisions and career paths.
- With National 4-H Council, we power Smart Cents, expanding access to digital-first financial education and educator training for youth and families in communities nationwide.
- Through our partnership with the SIFMA Foundation, we help open doors to investing education through programs like the Stock Market Game and Capitol Hill Challenge, teaching investing fundamentals alongside civic engagement.
Supported by paid volunteer time off, training, and financial incentives, Schwab employees serve as educators, mentors, and community leaders—bringing trusted expertise into classrooms, nonprofits, and neighborhoods across the country.
Learn more about how Charles Schwab Foundation invests in financial well-being for all.
1 2025 PYMNTS Intelligence report
2 2026 US News survey
3 2025 Freedom Debt Relief data