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Parents and Money Survey

Looking for advice on how to raise financially responsible kids?

A 2008 Schwab survey1 on the topic of families and money found that American parents worried about their kids' financial futures—but also that they might not have done as much as they could to help them. "Parents prepare their kids for so many of life's milestones—getting a driver's license, choosing a college, getting a job," said Carrie Schwab-Pomerantz, president of Charles Schwab Foundation. "But this survey showed that they may be missing opportunities to prepare their teens for important financial milestones like managing an allowance, getting their first job, getting a credit card, or buying a car."

Many parents (60%) identified their teens as "quick spenders," and most acknowledged they could do a better job of teaching their kids about and preparing them for the financial challenges of adulthood, including budgeting, saving, and investing.

And while most agreed that the best way for teens to learn about money was from guided, hands-on experience or parental example, only one in five parents involved their teen in the family's budgeting and spending decisions to a great extent. In fact, parents were much more likely to teach their kids how to do laundry than how to balance a checkbook.

The good news is you don't have to be a financial whiz to help your kids become financially savvy.

Here are some tips to get started:

  • Include kids in discussions about household finances.

    Talk about money at the dinner table, in the car, at the supermarket—whenever you find an opportunity. In short, discuss household finances as a regular part of everyday life. The majority of today's parents wish they'd known more about money management when they were teens. Break the cycle and start talking.

  • Help them prepare for important milestones.

    Real-life experiences provide the best opportunities to teach kids money management principles. Whether it's getting a first job, applying for a credit card, or buying a car, these experiences can help you teach financial lessons in a way that's compelling and meaningful to kids.

  • Give an allowance—and stick to it.

    An allowance helps kids learn how to make choices—sometimes at the expense of making mistakes. Don't give kids more money just because they ask for it. Teens whose parents describe them as "stellar savers" actually get, on average, an allowance that is $30 less per month than teens who are "quick spenders." If you increase your kids' allowance, demand greater accountability by requiring them to pay for some of their own basic necessities.

  • Encourage your teen to get a part-time or summer job.

    Teens who have paying jobs are 40% more likely to be "stellar savers" than kids who don't. Even working just a few hours a week or during summer breaks can give kids the important practical experience of managing their own money. Interestingly, only one-third of parents say their teens have a paying job.

  • Teach kids how to use financial tools, like checkbooks and credit cards.

    Almost one-third of parents say their teens don't have any type of savings, checking, or other financial account. While your kids are still under your roof, you can help them open savings and checking accounts in their own name and teach them how to use a credit card wisely. You can also teach them how to balance a checkbook and read a bank statement. These are exercises that will help them learn how to live within their means.

  • Help them to make saving a habit.

    Teach them that saving regularly should be as automatic as brushing their teeth. Consider providing an incentive by matching the money they put into savings—perhaps 25 cents on the dollar. Many parents feel they could do a better job teaching their teens about saving.

  • Encourage them to give back.

    Learning to save and learning to give go hand in hand. By giving back with time or money, kids can learn important values. Volunteering will help them appreciate what they have—and realize how they can make a difference. You can also encourage charitable giving by letting your kids research and choose an organization to support financially and by matching their donations dollar for dollar to show your support.

  • Show them the money.

    If you participate in a retirement plan, like a 401(k) or IRA, talk about what a great way it can be to potentially make money grow. If you feel comfortable doing so, you might even show them your own account statements to help them understand the power of compound growth over time.

Keep learning

Get the survey highlights, see what other parents have to say about raising children to be financially fit, and download our guide for teaching children about money.

1. The 2008 Parents and Money Survey was conducted by Kelton Research, a research consulting firm, on behalf of Schwab. The nationally representative online survey polled 1,000 American parents with teens ages 13–18 to better understand their views, behavior, and knowledge with respect to spending, saving, borrowing, and earning money. The survey findings have a margin of error of plus or minus three percentage points at the 95% confidence level.

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